Galicia Gordon on Leading Learners Blog

Feb 26, 2022

How I Am Never Jealous Of Anyone On This Entire Earth

I can audibly hear the "she really used a clickbait blog title" from miles away. I promise it is not. I am never jealous of anybody. Never.

Nobody on this Earth can emotionally affect me or make me think I should be like them. At all. Until the day I die.

I hate being selfish and self-conceited. Let's get into it.

There are 3 things I have given to my friend group and all of them, especially you Lana, raised their eyebrows and produced an "ah."

My three points are: You never can be anyone else until the day you die, all that matters is yourself and those closest to you, and nobody on this Earth's opinion matters (but I am not going to leave you there ⏤ I am going to show you how to remove their opinions).

Until the day you die

Some people need to have someone scream at their face and tell them it. You will never, until the day you die, no matter how hard you try, put all your money, effort, and faith, be anyone else on the entirety of this hectic Earth. Why would you, may I say, dare to, look at anyone else and their progress? I am going to tell you that it is a bad word I cannot use for our parents and educators that know me from high school who are reading and getting us new users. In short, a waste of your time.

Imagine a situation where someone is laying their beautiful, sparkly eyes on something they can never have, even if they had all the money, fame, and success in the world. Oh wait, that is exactly what you and everyone else is doing in that situation. There is this one girl who is obsessed with me and thinks I am actively competing with her, when I would not care if she deleted all socials and was long gone. I will place a financial bet that she is reading this as we speak. To her, I say "Girl bye. Leave me be. Good taste for choosing a Spanish girl, though."

Literally nobody else other than yourself and those closest

My aunt is one of those people you either hate because she is right (and you will never be better in terms of a strong, headfirst mindset), or you love her because you say "this woman literally saved me thousands of dollars, a heartbreak, and time ⏤ I have got to pay her back." I graduated from high school in June of 2021, and came to visit her in August 2021 for some advice about some guy I was reminiscing months later.

"Galicia, how could you? Our independent queen?" I know, I am so sorry, he got me, probably still does, and I still do not know why I do.

Anyways, she said "Galicia, every single student in this world realizes something at the 8-12 month mark after graduating." She said "their priorities." I was in so much denial that I could become a professional actor.

Little did I know, that exactly 8 months later, I would be a professional, just not an actor, a clown.

It is February 2022 (comedically 8 months after graduating), and I realized last night "nobody really matters in all of this Earth other than yourself and those closest to you." After you graduate, or spend some time alone, you say "I've got to find that girl who was always good to me"

*prolonged, elongated, and expensive cough*

You find your interests, sure, but the people. Secure the bag, secure the queen or king, secure your housing, and get the people you will be speaking to at least once a week, everyone else ⏤ goodbye. I personally unfollowed hundreds of people after graduating because I felt forced, or that I was literally following who spread negativity like it was butter on toast or an act of volunteerism. I know girls joke about guys who follow over 1,000 accounts, but I just follow and actually mind myself with people I care about, would go to their wedding, hospital for them, or their funeral. That is it.

Block, report, mark as spam, delete

Another moment for me to say it to you flat. Someone who bullied you, did not respect you, or took advantage of you is going to not be on this Earth. Not relevant, irrelevant, and is useless even. Nobody can say anything that would startle me. In fact, if someone were screaming at my face and said "you will never do anything in your life, you are useless, everything you do is irrelevant," I would apply some more of my classic Galician red lipstick, and smile. Maybe a kiss too.

No negativity is made for no reason. You can kick, scream, and argue me. But again, I would apply more of my lipstick and smile. Getting my $40 worth.

I want to put this into perspective for you. Imagine you are a diamond, money, or whatever you deem valuable. What is that to you? It is only beneficial, only has your best interest at heart, and would only help you and every single person you offered it to. If you offered that to someone, and they say "no," "it's not good enough," "I do not want that near me," or the like, you should never, ever, without a single doubt, no matter what, even if the worst situation, think that it is no longer valuable. It always will be.

When you have someone call you a bad name, take advantage of you, avoid you, not apologize to you, or not want you to be happy, please, please know that, nobody on this entire Earth. Nobody. None. At all. Nobody is born thinking "I should harm and damage someone." Nobody on this entire Earth. Remove negativity from your life, and here is why you should be positive when others are not.

Still drinking my morning coffee, I am off to work. Long walk. My kitchen to my desk. Have a good one.